At 93, it is not surprising that the lady of honor is pretty hard of hearing and not completely sure who we are. She is, however, still fun to be around. She is in good spirits, is adept at rolling with whatever is happening around her and has kept her sense of humor. We are finding that what thrills her these day are not too far off from what thrills a small child...glitter barrettes, hugs, smiles, back scratches, feather boas, balloons. It is rare for her to be the center of attention these days, so we enjoyed having her be the focus for part of the day.
My grandma is also at that point in her life where presents she gets are likely offered up as "junk" she doesn't need the next time you visit her. And, she will most likely urge you to take it with you. She isn't much for things to begin with and over the years, she has been trying to whittle down her possessions. These factors make it mighty hard to give her a gift she will appreciate. When my Uncle Bill gave her cash in her birthday card last year, she was pretty happy about it. So, my mom decided to run with that idea and encouraged everyone who came to the party to bring her a card with anywhere from $5 to $20 in it.
She was pretty happy when she sat down with her stack of cards and the first one she opened had money in it.
"Oh, youse guys! You didn't have to give me anything.", said with her German accent.
My grandma is also at that point in her life where presents she gets are likely offered up as "junk" she doesn't need the next time you visit her. And, she will most likely urge you to take it with you. She isn't much for things to begin with and over the years, she has been trying to whittle down her possessions. These factors make it mighty hard to give her a gift she will appreciate. When my Uncle Bill gave her cash in her birthday card last year, she was pretty happy about it. So, my mom decided to run with that idea and encouraged everyone who came to the party to bring her a card with anywhere from $5 to $20 in it.
She was pretty happy when she sat down with her stack of cards and the first one she opened had money in it.
And, then the second card had money in it, too! "Oh my goodness!", she said.
She opened each card, not assuming that the pattern would continue and each time, upon finding more money, she was as delighted as with the first card. "Well, I'll be darned!"
It is fun to take her picture because she doesn't care much at all about the camera being there and just continues being herself. I had planned to whittle the photos down to just a few, but she made so many fun expressions, I couldn't narrow it down.
She took time to read each card.
Nice pics, Trin! Thanks for posting this. Love you, Mom
ReplyDeleteYour grandma is adorable! Happy birthday to her :-)
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean re: grandmas and presents. Mine, though, would never take money from her kids or grandkids - convinced that they always need it more than she does. (and there's no convincing her otherwise!) Whenever we go visit and bring her groceries, she always tries to pay us for them. Then we hide the check/cash somewhere in her house where she won't find it 'till we leave. Then the same thing happens next time. And the next time. And the next... ::sigh::
what a sweet story :) and a lovely grandma!
ReplyDeletethat is a truly adorable story. and a truly adorable grandma.
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